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Re: What is in Your Mind?
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Eli
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WHEN MARRIAGE IS A MISTAKE
Most times when a marriage is in trouble, people tend to see their Marriage as a mistake rather than seeing the mistakes they are making in their marriage.
At this point they regret marrying their wife or husband, begin to think of a new partner, imagine marrying their ex or fantasizing a marriage without issues.
Some even divorce or remarry and later wish they had remained with their first Spouse, as they find greater trouble in the new spouse. This is because the first marriage was not a mistake, and the mistake has not been discovered yet.
So you can remarry as many times as you like, you will still experience problems in marriage until you discover the mistakes you are making in your marriage and correct them.
So divorce or separation is not a solution to consider when you are having problems with your marriage.
When your car has a flat tyre, you do not abandon it, but change the tyre and move on.
When we have a headache, no matter how excruciating, we do not cut off the head but take care of the headache.
When a bulb blows out in the room we do not change the room or the house, we replace the bulb and light up the room.
When we have challenges at work, we do not refuse to go to work, we go there to solve the problems.
So when marriage has an issue, we don't have to try to change the spouse instead of changing the attitude that is creating the problem.
Most times when we see some couples enjoying their marriages and enjoying each other to the fullest, we admire and cherish them, but the opposite is seen in our own marriage. The reason is that some people have worked on their marriage by paying the necessary price and that is why they are enjoying the fruits of their labour. It is said, “The way you make your bed is the way you will lie on it”.
Your marriage is as good or as sweet as you make it. Some couples, because of the negative things they are seeing in their marriage, accuse each other of being responsible. They point accusing fingers at each other for being responsible. Some even say many bad things about their spouse, even calling him or her names; some think that marrying that man or that woman was a mistake.
It is not so, your marriage was not a mistake,but you are the mistake.
Your habit is the mistake
Your character is the mistake
Your manner, anger, unforgiveness, laziness, lack of love, lack of affection, lack of attention, impatience, bitterness, selfishness, ignorance, stinginess, not being considerate, infidelity and lovelessness are the mistakes.Talking about bitterness.
Some still dream of a marriage with their ex, seeing your spouse as a stumbling block.
Wake up to the smell of coffee. Be content with your spouse. That behavior is your mistake.
So get up now and build your marriage because it is not a mistake.
Divorce or separation are never options.
Amend your ways and decisions.
Give your spouse a stress free life.
May GOD bless all marriages
Oh God give us Christian Homes that will raise Godly seeds.
#FightingSinfulAddiction
Most times when a marriage is in trouble, people tend to see their Marriage as a mistake rather than seeing the mistakes they are making in their marriage.
At this point they regret marrying their wife or husband, begin to think of a new partner, imagine marrying their ex or fantasizing a marriage without issues.
Some even divorce or remarry and later wish they had remained with their first Spouse, as they find greater trouble in the new spouse. This is because the first marriage was not a mistake, and the mistake has not been discovered yet.
So you can remarry as many times as you like, you will still experience problems in marriage until you discover the mistakes you are making in your marriage and correct them.
So divorce or separation is not a solution to consider when you are having problems with your marriage.
When your car has a flat tyre, you do not abandon it, but change the tyre and move on.
When we have a headache, no matter how excruciating, we do not cut off the head but take care of the headache.
When a bulb blows out in the room we do not change the room or the house, we replace the bulb and light up the room.
When we have challenges at work, we do not refuse to go to work, we go there to solve the problems.
So when marriage has an issue, we don't have to try to change the spouse instead of changing the attitude that is creating the problem.
Most times when we see some couples enjoying their marriages and enjoying each other to the fullest, we admire and cherish them, but the opposite is seen in our own marriage. The reason is that some people have worked on their marriage by paying the necessary price and that is why they are enjoying the fruits of their labour. It is said, “The way you make your bed is the way you will lie on it”.
Your marriage is as good or as sweet as you make it. Some couples, because of the negative things they are seeing in their marriage, accuse each other of being responsible. They point accusing fingers at each other for being responsible. Some even say many bad things about their spouse, even calling him or her names; some think that marrying that man or that woman was a mistake.
It is not so, your marriage was not a mistake,but you are the mistake.
Your habit is the mistake
Your character is the mistake
Your manner, anger, unforgiveness, laziness, lack of love, lack of affection, lack of attention, impatience, bitterness, selfishness, ignorance, stinginess, not being considerate, infidelity and lovelessness are the mistakes.Talking about bitterness.
Some still dream of a marriage with their ex, seeing your spouse as a stumbling block.
Wake up to the smell of coffee. Be content with your spouse. That behavior is your mistake.
So get up now and build your marriage because it is not a mistake.
Divorce or separation are never options.
Amend your ways and decisions.
Give your spouse a stress free life.
May GOD bless all marriages
Oh God give us Christian Homes that will raise Godly seeds.
#FightingSinfulAddiction
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TSSFL -- A Creative Journey Towards Infinite Possibilities!
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Eli
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TSSFL Technology Stack - www.tssfl.com is an interactive digital learning platform that enables the teaching and learning of Arts, Mathematics, Sciences, Technology, and Engineering subjects. It offers the following advantages:
• It creates a digital social learning classroom that facilitates interactive learning and collaboration between students and teachers, resulting in a more engaging learning experience.
• The use of interactive simulations, games, and videos makes learning STEM subjects more enjoyable, hands-on, and stimulating. This helps illustrate complex concepts and makes learning more attractive.
• Students can learn anytime, anywhere, making it ideal for those with busy schedules or who live in remote locations. It also enables self-paced learning for students to progress at their own speed.
• It provides avenues where teachers can collaborate in developing, updating, and modifying course content anytime, anywhere.
• It enables collaborative teaching where teachers can post questions, assign tasks, clarify doubts, and provide guidance to students.
• Students are also able to participate in content development by providing inputs, feedback, and suggestions in the discussion forums. This helps engage students as part of the learning process.
• It fosters 21st-century skills such as critical thinking, collaboration, communication, and creativity — crucial skills for success in today's world and workforce.
• Quizzes and assessments can be automatically graded, saving teachers time while providing students with immediate feedback. Digital resources can be instantly accessed, saving time and increasing efficiency.
• Course content can be created once and reused regardless of location, saving teachers time in development and updating materials while giving students universal access.
• Content is easily edited and modified, allowing quick updates and improvements to reflect changes and advances in the field.
• It can be personalized to meet the needs of each student through tailored instruction and feedback based on their strengths and weaknesses.
• Interactive and multimedia features increase student engagement and understanding of complex subjects.
• It facilitates greater collaboration among students through discussion forums, group projects, and teamwork.
• It provides a cost-effective alternative to traditional learning by eliminating expensive materials, and accessibility, and reducing commute costs.
• Students have access to global online libraries, databases, and educational resources that are important for broadening their perspectives.
• Working professionals have the flexibility to study remotely while balancing work and family obligations.
• It provides accessible education for students facing barriers to traditional learning, like those with disabilities, from low-income families, or living in remote areas.
• It creates a digital social learning classroom that facilitates interactive learning and collaboration between students and teachers, resulting in a more engaging learning experience.
• The use of interactive simulations, games, and videos makes learning STEM subjects more enjoyable, hands-on, and stimulating. This helps illustrate complex concepts and makes learning more attractive.
• Students can learn anytime, anywhere, making it ideal for those with busy schedules or who live in remote locations. It also enables self-paced learning for students to progress at their own speed.
• It provides avenues where teachers can collaborate in developing, updating, and modifying course content anytime, anywhere.
• It enables collaborative teaching where teachers can post questions, assign tasks, clarify doubts, and provide guidance to students.
• Students are also able to participate in content development by providing inputs, feedback, and suggestions in the discussion forums. This helps engage students as part of the learning process.
• It fosters 21st-century skills such as critical thinking, collaboration, communication, and creativity — crucial skills for success in today's world and workforce.
• Quizzes and assessments can be automatically graded, saving teachers time while providing students with immediate feedback. Digital resources can be instantly accessed, saving time and increasing efficiency.
• Course content can be created once and reused regardless of location, saving teachers time in development and updating materials while giving students universal access.
• Content is easily edited and modified, allowing quick updates and improvements to reflect changes and advances in the field.
• It can be personalized to meet the needs of each student through tailored instruction and feedback based on their strengths and weaknesses.
• Interactive and multimedia features increase student engagement and understanding of complex subjects.
• It facilitates greater collaboration among students through discussion forums, group projects, and teamwork.
• It provides a cost-effective alternative to traditional learning by eliminating expensive materials, and accessibility, and reducing commute costs.
• Students have access to global online libraries, databases, and educational resources that are important for broadening their perspectives.
• Working professionals have the flexibility to study remotely while balancing work and family obligations.
• It provides accessible education for students facing barriers to traditional learning, like those with disabilities, from low-income families, or living in remote areas.
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